The reasonable "sunboy" may be "healthy", but if the motivation or method is wrong, it is likely that the child is "sunburn".
Source | "China Teachers Daily" comment version
Author | Jiang Yulan Tianhe District Education Development Research Institute, Guangzhou City, Guangdong Province
I have heard such an incident. Some schools or individuals are often donated by schools where a school is located in the Urban -Rural Joint Department.However, if the donors request to take a group photo with the donor or even announce the photos, the school declines such a donation.Because in school, it is a hidden harm to children.
Goodwill should not have additional conditions, and cannot "take" children photos for their own selfishness.This principle is not only suitable for donors, but also for parents and teachers.
In the era of artificial intelligence, information release is more convenient. Parents or teachers often "sun -sun" on the Internet. What should I think of this line?
The above incident reminds us that when the object of "sun" is a child, we must respect the childs psychological feelings and be careful. Reasonable "sunboy" may be "sunny", but if the motivation or method is wrong, it is likely to "sunburn" the child.
"Danating" belongs to the "self -revealing" behavior in evolutionary psychology, which can bring people some survival advantages, such as pulling close to others, obtaining about the relationship between others and obtaining about the relationship between others.Self -feedback and improve self -expression, etc., can enrich peoples social life and enhance their sense of happiness.However, things cannot be extreme. If you "sun" or show off too much, it may be counterproductive.
Specific to the "dry baby" behavior itself should make this "self -revealing" behavior play a positive role and become the positive energy of education rather than produce a negative effect.As an educator, I think that "sunbathing" should be based on equality and respect. It must be "exposed to" and do something.
First, grasp the boundaries between the beauty and consumer children.
Regardless of teachers or parents, they should grasp a basic principle on the Internet, that is, the child should be the child in school or family life.The beautiful moment is the childs good behavior or advantages. He expresss the appreciation and encouragement of the child through "sun" and conveys the positive energy in education and life.
On the contrary, if "sunbathing" is just for self -interest, or shows the highness of educational methods, or satisfy vanity, or turn "aesthetic" into "ugly", then this wayThe behavior is not desirable.
For example, some teachers disclose students shortcomings, errors, or even defects, or compare students disadvantages and derogation in order to show their personal educational wisdom or educational results.The baby "raised himself, degraded the child, and the child became the object of" being consumed ".Such teachers often hurt their children without knowing themselves, so behaviors should be vigilant.
Secondly, to fully respect the child as the premise to care for the childs mind, and avoid hurting the name of love.
It is undeniable that most of the teachers and parents are not malicious when they are "sunbathing", so they feel that it is taken for granted and there is no need to solicit childrens opinions.
But in fact, on the one hand, although children are young, they should be treated with respect and peace as an independent individual.Children are not adults private property or vassals, and they cannot replace their childrens will of adults;
On the other hand, even if adults think they are good,We must fully listen to the childrens opinions and respect the subjective will of the child.The childs heart is delicate and sensitive. As Suhomlinsky said, we must carefully protect the students hearts like treating dew on the lotus leaf.
Once again, using laws and regulations as the bottom line, practicing the practitioners of civilization, avoid "good infringement" due to ignorance.
The online "sunboy" seems to be a trivial matter, and a little carelessness may violate the law.With the continuous development and improvement of the rule of law, especially the introduction of anti -domestic violence laws, and the revision of the protection of minors, protecting the rights and interests of minors has become a social consensus.
Teachers and parents should clarify that children have the right to survive, development, protection, participation, and privacy rights to learn the law and protect their childrens rights.
Especially the use of modern information technology tools brings great convenience to education, but also increases the risk of privacy leaks for students.
Posted student photos whether it is not handled or not obtained on the schools official website or the public network platform. It is likely to infringe the right to portrait and privacy of students.
From this, "sunboy" should clarify basic specifications or "technical requirements".In the education and research or education news of many countries, there are clear requirements for photos and information involving minor children, or fuzzy treatment of faces, or only use the students side or back image, and it must be hidden from the students personal information.
This reveals us that the school or education department should formulate specific rules and regulations for students privacy protection under the premise of respecting students and protecting students in the scope of protecting minors.Management rules to form a standardized practice of student information release and dissemination.
The publics attention to the phenomenon of "baby" is a manifestation of the progress of social civilization. With the improvement of social civilization and the enhancement of individual rights awareness of social individual rightsThe behavior must be carefully considered at the moment and grasp the boundaries of the behavior.
Relevant departments should establish and improve the relevant network rules and protection mechanisms to explore the reasonable path of integration of technology and education, so that it can help build a healthier parent -child relationship, teacher -student relationship, and alsoChildren have a healthy and safe growth environment.
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