In education, teachers, students, and parents are three ropes, which will be more strong and powerful.As a parent, you must accompany your children to the child; as a student, you must "diligently" to learn; as a teacher, you must teach "new" often.Parents are "quiet", students are "diligent", and teachers "new" can form a harmonious co -advancement and benign development class.Lets take a look at this article together-
As a long time of the class teacher, everyone will gradually discover that the pressure of teachers comes from students, and students pressure comes from the family: Parents are tightly forced, the children will be the child, and the child will.Emotions; students are not diligent, and teachers education and teaching are not updated realized in real time, and teaching is difficult to achieve results.A good class must be parents "Jing", student "diligence", and teacher "new".
Parents should "quiet"
The first is "scene quiet". Parents should provide their children with a quiet learning environment.In a quiet environment, children will feel relaxed and peace of mind. Stress and anxiety are greatly alleviated. Learning enthusiasm will be greatly improved. The attention will be more concentrated.Raise.
The second is "companionship". In the process of accompanying, the parents mentality should be "quiet", maintaining enough patience and carefulness, listening to their voice, and giving appropriate guidance and help.Parents should do a good job, turn off the TV in real time, put down their mobile phones, and accompany their children to read and learn. Children will balance in a quiet environment like "the family is doing the same thing".
Third is "relationship quiet". Parents should handle family relationships quietly, from "husband and wife relationship" to "mother -in -law relationship".A friend and wife were not good at the relationship, and often quarreled. Once, just because the child was watching TV fans for forgetting to sleep, his wife cleaned up the child and found that the child was sleeping overnight on the sofa the next day.In such a family environment, the childs heart will be shrouded in the shadow, thinking that the world is like home, unwilling to face, and does not want to change; on the other handEncourage and help take the initiative to accept various challenges.
Learn the expensive "diligence"
Learning is expensive and diligent, and this diligence mainly stems from internal drivers.
The internal driving force of the child has nothing to do with the "pressure" of adults, but because of its own desire for knowledge and growth.The "self -decision theory" proposed by American psychologists believes that everyone has three basic psychological needs: independent needs, competent needs, and ownership needs.
Independent needs. Children are generally eager to choose independently, not forced to do.We can encourage children to express themselves, set the boundary and provide choices, so that children feel that they are managing their own behaviors, and believe that we will get better and better.When we encourage and support childrens autonomy, he can often show stronger psychological adaptability and self -motivation ability.
The need for competent. This is a feeling of "I can do". It is a reflection of the matching of ability and learning difficulty. It is more like a belief.The sense of victory involves a concept called "the most ideal challenge".We can divide the big goals into small goals, and let the children experience a sense of "victory" in the reasonable range of "a tiptoe to get a tip."
The ownership needs. This is a feeling of "it is part of a certain group or environment, accepted and understood".I feel that I need to be used, instead of being useless or like an outsider."Need people" is a very high -level emotion that everyone has. Children will feel the meaning of life when they are needed by others.
Teachers want "new"
Tao Xingzhi said: "Trained people, like planting flowers, first of allIt is necessary to understand the characteristics of flower and trees, and different situations are given to fertilization, watering, and cultivation. "To be a teacher, you need to innovate the spirit, constantly update the educational concepts, improve teaching methods, and improve professional literacy.
The teachers favorite teacher is generally "superman", and it can quickly help solve it when encountering difficulties.If you like such teachers, you also like the discipline of his professor.How do teachers teach and often become "super people"?The answer is to keep up with "length, width and height".
The so -called "long" is to find that your strengths continue to consolidate and make your strengths longer. Be good at discovering their own flash points with "magnifying glass". Some teachers are good at class, some are good at speaking, and some are good at writing ... As long as you dig deep into a well and practice hard, "one trick" is also ""A piece of heaven."
The so -called "wide" is to walk to the wide place. Teachers are not only spreading knowledge, but also the spreaders of life experience. They must have strong professional knowledge and skills, but also have broad humanistic literacy and spiritual quality. In this way, they can teach books and educate people.
The so -called "high" is to choose a high place. Think about it often, what is a major thing in this life?I think in the end it is nothing more than "educating people and educating talents for the party". To use these eight words as the original intention and mission, make a due contribution.
As a teacher, we must make our lives have power, pursuit, ideal, planned, and constantly play, and the education life will not be bland and bored, and the value of life is also the value of life.In order to appear.
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