Highlights The seller has exceeded the imagination of some parents. In addition to cleaning up his second -hand, there are also services such as "writing homework".For many parents, buyers and children are lazy, and sellers and children are unreasonable.But before you are angry, you can think about it from another angle. This may be a good opportunity to discuss economy, business and morality with children
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Text 丨 Birthday Sister 丨 LUNA
A few days ago, my friend reposted a news and asked me what to think.
"13-year-old girl to write homework for people during the winter vacation, income tens of thousands of yuan."
Seriously, I am not curious about this news. I am more curious about the treatment of childrens parents and teachers.
I didnt find too much information, only one sentence: "The childs mother educated the child and confiscated its income."
Some media commented on this news:" In the final analysis, it is caused by the current primary school students who often look at computers or mobile phones. The main reason is that parents can educate their children well.Electronic products such as computers, mobile phones, can occasionally play, but do not addiction.I think that The origin and development of currency in human society can perfectly explain the above behavior.
When human beings have no currency in the early days, they are ease.My family has , change your banana.If one day, I use Apple to change your banana, but you said that you dont want to eat apples today to eat pears, then I have to find people with pears first, use apples to change pears first, and then change bananas.
This process will be troublesome.
In order to solve this disadvantage, everyone gradually discovered that using some rare items as an equivalent exchange, such as shells, it will be more convenient.When I want to change the banana with an apple, I do n’t need to change the pears, but I directly change it to the shell, and then take the shell to change the banana.
The shell is easy to crush, so humans have discovered gold and silver, and since then, gold and silver began to circulate as currencies.
Think about it when we were young, there were not so many children now.But it exists in large quantities.
For example, lets copy your math today, and you have to let me copy your English today. If you have always copied me, you may exchange this exchange.Interrupt or replace it with other ways.
There are also school cleaning. Today, you ca n’t clean up with you. I will help you when I have something next time.If you dont help me, then you may not do it next time.
and playing games between boys, this time I invite you to play games, next time I look forward to you invite me to play games.
There is no help that does not show any return. Even if I do not accept any material returns, I must expect to make you feel that I am a good person.Give me a good evaluation, which is also a return.
If someone is where there is a demand.With different needs, there will be exchanges. If you exchange, you will have a demand for currency."Exchange" is the basis of existence and development of human society. With exchanges, we can do what we are good at, and greatly liberate labor.
In the era of our childrens life, the use of money is much more than our time.They are no longer "voids" but "money and things", which is no different from our childhood.
Adults may not accept that the childs life may be involved prematurely, which will affect the childrens values.
But this trend is the same as the appearance of currency in human society. It is irreversible and inevitable.And use money to solve the problem, which is more fair and efficient than using "relationships" and "privileges".
If the result is irreversible, what we can do is guide.
Guide children to think about what can be traded as a commodity transaction?What is not possible?
What did the goods that were not allowed in the history of human history to eventually become a product that can be traded?What can be changed to no?
Is there a principle of passing during the transaction?
What did the students traded?Such as homework?Or cleaning?Or cadre cadres?
If you talk to your child, you may have unexpected gains.Of course, if you have a certain business thinking, you can better guide your children.
The media reported such a thing:
Beijing Wangjing No. 1 Middle SchoolStudent A small academic performance is excellent, and basketball guitar is proficient. One day, his mother heard that Xiao A paid to classmates, borrow notes, and helped to do homework.After learning about this, Xiao As mother was shocked and angry, but still chatted with Xiao A calmly.
Xiao A told his mother that he had helped his classmates talk about the question before, and never thought of charging his classmates.Later, he asked him more for help. He was a little annoyed, but he was embarrassed to refuse.
He thought about it. If these students went to the outside class outside the class and found the tutor, they would also spend money. Why cant I accept it?As a result, he released the "charging standard" in the class.
He feels that through the charges, he can refuse some of the students help in disguise to make him easier; second, you can also add some pocket money, which can be described as two birds with one stone.
As for why he did not tell his mother, he thought so, his charges were not high, but he was a bit symbolic, and there were fewer red envelopes than students in the group.Therefore, he felt nothing. Of course, he also faintly speculated that his mother would not agree, so he did not say.
When we know that one thing feels angry and wants to criticize children, you may wish to listen to their thoughts. I always want to take a hat for the behavior of giving the child for granted, do not listen to their ideas, and finally make them farther and farther away from us, and maybe they kill a business little talent.
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