Parents are worried that their children will affect their academic performance due to early love, and they are afraid that their children will taste the suffering of love when they dont understand themselves.Paying your own sincerity, this may be more terrible than not going to college.
I understand the truth when I went to school in the morning in the 90s. Early love may not be the biggest factor affecting the academic performance.If the students do not like to learn, even if they do not fall in love, they will achieve a decline in playing games or other reasons.
Therefore, when they are parents, they have changed their educational concepts of their children.It is no longer a soldier for early love, but to guide students to mature in a more enlightened way.
"Understand the age of my age", parents cant understand the childs circle of friends, the 10 latter is precocious
Maybe due to the influence of the Internet and film and television dramas, the post -10 students are mature earlier than the post -00 students thoughts .Parents and teachers are indistinguishable from early love. Many elementary school students have "opened their tricks". No matter how the teacher reiterates the harm of early love, some students still have the idea that they should not have.
Some elementary students already have their own social accounts, taking pictures like adults, and also with sad text. I couldnt cry and laugh at college students, and I felt that I didnt know much about children.
In fact, most students may not really fall in love early, but just feel that pretending to be melancholy will be cool, so they will be able to repost each otherSimilar copywriting.Parents who were unknown thought that their children had a "situation" and hurriedly left a message to ask the reason. I didnt expect my son to reply to Dad: When you reach me, you understand.
Netizens said, Dont say elementary school students, even the nephew in the kindergarten has a favorite person , and the lovers eyes are in Xishi, and they dont like fat, but the person you like is fine.This has to be emotional. After the 10th, it is too precocious. Compared with them, the post -00s are still very simple.
Parents: Only the bookbag only knows that even the money has been collected?
In order to understand the childs true thoughts, parents are also the key inspection objects in addition to watching the circle of friends.Some netizens revealed that the son was crying and crying directly when the son received the news that the female classmate wanted to transfer. Seeing tears wet the small genius watch, parents want to laugh and dare not laugh, and they have to calmly comfort the children.
Some students wrote a "small composition" to the classmates of their favorite, and wrote in detail from the first grade to the four.The journey of the grade.At the beginning, only the opponent was used as a competitor in learning. After reading the novel in the third grade, he knew that he had moved his true feelings. Parents are surprised. It turns out that the childrens writing is so good, and they cant see it at all when writing.
And parents suggest that everyone checks out the childs schoolbag.Severe results. As a result, the parents said that he had turned the schoolbag before he knew that his son even collected the money of the part .The job book has become a ledger, which records the amount of gifts for each classmate in detail. Parents did not expect that the current children can play so.
Now the network information is developed, and it is difficult for parents to completely eliminate students to contact the Internet. Perhaps they will be misled by this information, which will cause students to generate prematurely.The idea of adults. In most cases, students just feel fun and do not act substantially.If parents can properly guide, maybe nothing will happen . If the parents reflect too much, they may instead stimulate students rebellious psychology, and the situation will be more tricky.
What should I do if my parents find that their children have an early love tendency?
The key factor in judging the quality of family education is whether the child will speak freely with parents. When children encounter emotional trouble, they will find their parents for help. Such children are usually not troubled by early love problems. After parents know their childrens ideas, they dont have to worry too much.
I am worried that some parents will not grasp the scores, and they usually manage too rigorous management . If you doForcibly preaching, this will only let the child refuse to communicate.
Perhaps the parents will be angry when they first know, but they must keep calm. Dont rush to deny, but follow the seduction of good and let students understand the relationship between pros and cons. Know what age should do, and if the two feelings are in the past, how can it be in the past.
Before the age of 18, you still have to focus on academic studies. Especially for parents of boys, let them have a sense of responsibility. Regardless of the consequences.Students can learn together, make learning goals and work together for a better tomorrow.
Parents can also arrange more cultural and sports activities for their children, or study activities to avoid students obsessed with the Internet in their spare time and affected by bad information.The idea of precocity. As long as the students find things that are more interested, they dont have time to think about it.
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