Parents as the child are far -reaching.In the past, many parents had regretted that they did not study hard when they went to school. I hope their children will not repeat the same mistakes.It turned out that it was not as simple as imagined.
Whether the academic performance is good or bad, life is mixed.All walks of life have their own "sweet and sour and bitter", and high education may not be able to obtain stable positions and considerable income. It is not as important as parents imagined by the entrance examination, let alone the usual homework and final exams.What about?
Parents of Buddhism may become a trend.34jn38bf "> The change of parent education mentality is not accidental, but in exchange for many lively life. In recent years, there have been some extreme phenomena in various places. Students choose to be light due to the pressure of learning.Other students left home because they were criticized by their parents. The parents were anxious, and even used the power of the media to find people in the city. As a result, most of them ended in tragedy.
When these parents regretted it, they should not be able to give their children too much pressure for the test score. Nothing is more valuable than life and health. It is not afraid of fire burning. There are always people going to sweep the streets. What is it?
After the parents mentality has changed, the school exams again, and the parents obviously no longer nervous and anxious.If you do n’t write, you can sleep and sleep, do n’t be tired. The test score is not satisfactory and it doesnt matter. As long as you live well, it is okay to grow up the street.
Students give their grades to the parents , and parents no longer tangled their scores and rankings, but moreThink about your childs advantages comfort yourself .It seems that there is no shortcoming except for the poor learning. You will do housework, sensible filial piety, optimistic personality, love sports, and do not deny it because you are not good at studying and exams.
Therefore, when the teacher urged parents to counsel childrens homework, the parents attitude of Buddhism also surprised the teacher. It is said that parents are afraid of encountering teachers of Buddhism, and in fact, teachers are also afraid of the parents of Buddhism. The child can not criticize the teachers mistakes. Parents are afraid that criticism will hurt the childs self -esteem and let the child have extreme ideas.
"Education of Buddhism" does not mean that it is rotten, and teaching is a wise move.
Some parents education methods are extremely extreme, or they are very strict. The students grades have a little regression, and they are like the enemy, or they are completely rotten. Students take 0 points and do nothing. If the teacher punish the students because the student does not complete the learning task, parents may also complain about the teacher, which makes the teacher a headache.
The so-called Buddhist education is in line with nature and no longer rely on supplementary classes.Choose the learning method that suits them according to the interests of students, teach according to their aptitude, and avoid weaknesses. If you like sports, go to sports students. If you like painting, you should be art students. Do not take learning too utilitarianization.
360s line out of the champion, perhaps for ordinary families to learn art and sports, it is more disadvantaged., But there may not be no way to get in the beginning. The premise is to distinguish between three minutes of heat or really talent. Use advantageous disciplines to drive the enthusiasm of learning and determine the learning goals and then stimulate consciousness. This is more effective than parents preaching and making up lessons.
If the parents do not care about students because of the Buddhist department, they may have greater hidden dangers, but it is not conducive to students health.growing up. Learning cannot be too strict, you can relax, as for how to grasp the scale, it is also wise.
The students attitude is abnormal. Parents must pay attention to
A parent saidMany tragedies are often avoided. There was a senior high school student who called the parents and wanted to go home. As a result, it was not serious. As a result, the students left the world in despair that day.
Another parent of a senior girl said that her daughter has always been well -known and sensible, and suddenly one day calls to cry and say to go home.I went to school to pick up children to avoid tragedy.
Many students will ask parents and teachers for help when emotional collapse.Will be aware of danger. Unfortunately, many teachers and parents simply think that students want to be lazy, or after crying and leaked, they did not comfort them in time. As a result, they caused life regrets.
Whether it is a few grades, they should receive regular psychological health education. The school can also be equipped with a mental health teacher. If the students are inconvenientYou can find a psychological teacher.
The most important thing is the attitude of the parents. Usually spend more time with the children, listen to their hearts, dont feel everything you feel aboutIt is the teenager to say sorrow. Perhaps it is a trivial matter for parents, but for students, everything is not a hurry.
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