"A table of 11 dishes, my daughter does not eat it in one sip." Mom complained: The child picks up, don’t want to raise it anymore

The happiest state of a person is optional; the most troublesome state is to choose too much.

I still remember that before the college entrance examination, the head teacher said to us: Do you think, is there a high score?Or is there a low score? At that time, many students thought -that must be a high choice of high scores.

But the words of the class teacher refresh our cognition -high scores are far from the low score, The number of good universities is so much, the opposite is the opposite. If your score is very low, your choice cannot be selected!All kinds of private bachelor and even pheasant universities will call you!

A word from the class teacher, let the author think of a Chinese reading that he has done in high school.She provides her daughter a lot of choices every day -is breakfast who wants to eat buns or steamed buns? Although each choice is simple, because she gave her daughter the power to choose, every meal was full of happiness, and this Chinese reading left a deep impression on the author.

"11 dishes a table, daughter dont eat it in one sip", mother complained: the child picks up, does not want to raise it

However, what happens when the story in reading reflects reality?A young mother on the Internet complained that her daughter was too tortured and did not want to raise it. It turned out that The parents daughter had just entered the fourth grade of elementary school this year, which was a critical period for growth and development.

For the sake of the childs health, the parent also worked hard to make a variety of delicious food for her daughter.When I went out to buy vegetables, I was busy making a large table for a long time. As a result, my fourth -grade daughter did not give her face at all and did not eat it.

Looking at 11 dishes in front of her, her daughter did not eat it. The young parent seemed to be taken awayAfter all the strength, his hard work became worthless, and his sense of weakness came into his heart. Then he complained that he said that - Children picking eaters are really torture and dont want to raise them.

There are many parents who have the same trouble with this young mother, some netizens in the comment area have exposed their own labor results -made a large table deliciously delicious.As a result, the brother didnt eat it, and didnt even serve it, so he went to the cold noodles with his classmates.

Face children who do not eat or eat, young parents are exhaustedWhy is there no result for your dedication and not even cherished?Some parents are in contemplation, and the answer that the ultimate draw is — It ’s great!

Parents excessive efforts have become self -move

Many parents in the post -80s and post -90s are from many people from the post -90s.The suffering -type education came out, so when he became a parent, is easy to fall into another extreme, and he is reluctant to eat a little bit of suffering. always do his best to give your child the best.

Not to mention the learning environment and educational resources, even three meals a day are full of table dishes, even if you take your own for a few hoursPay, can only get two more foods for children, these parents also feel willing.

But the reality is that these students become more and more rebellious under the pride and doting of parents., Also trampled on the mind of parents, Obviously, people who choose to choose are happy, but choosing too many adults will be distressed and minors will be numb.

Some parents explore and find that Sometimes there is no need to give students too much choice , make a table of vegetables, childrenI do n’t eat it in one sip, and in the end, it is also hard -working and paid. Except for myself, I do n’t have any meaning.

In addition, there is another situation that many parents seem to have given students a lot of choices. In fact/Strong> For example, some elementary school students like to eat fried chicken wings. Parents agreed on the surface, but in fact, they just listened to half selectively.