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Some time ago, a video I posted received such a comment: "As long as it is medium -weight autism, it will not be cured. Dont believe in the so -called rehabilitation institution, the blind people order the light of the light, thousandsDont be deceived, remember.Today, I want to talk to you about this question: Is the medium and severity autism intervention really "blind the lights and white fuel"?
In fact, regarding autism intervention, I think to a large extent with the expectations of parents .
For example, whether parents hold too high, unrealistic expectations , and whether those who provide professional services can be based on their professional independence., Judge whether their expectations are consistent with the actual situation.
In addition, depending on the person who provides professional services, Whether to deliberately induce parents to form too high expectations .If parents expectations are consistent with the actual situation, whether the ability to improve the child with medium to severe autism is worthwhile, each parent actually has their own inner value judgment.
Before, I met a child with a 5 -year -old independent autism. His father told me: "I expect my child to live so hard in the future, and I can live better and take care of myself.. "
and the father of another severe autism, the child said to me," Children are 7 years old, I hope that children can learn some meaningful parent -child activities, and they can be more in the future."
These expectations are not to cure autism, but can we say that it is meaningless to pursue the realization of these expectations?Is it "the blind man lights the light and the oil"? Answer is undoubtedly no.
Of course, I have also seen many spectrum parents and gradually reduce their expectations for children.Some parents can digest these emotions, but some parents will feel that what they have done in the past are not worth it.
I can understand the feelings of these parents.I just hope that those who are professional rice bowls can ensure their professional independence and be worthy of their own rice bowls.
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