In the past two days, Many men across the country have been circled by the "Swiss volume" question ~
The causeYes: A Full -time treasure mother was blamed by her husband for eating two Swiss rolls .
Eight boxes of Swiss volumes, two daughters eat two, their sons eat two, her husband eats two, and after the wife coaxs the child, go to eat the remaining two Swiss volumesEssence
I saw it by my husband, and then taught her: You eat more when you eat as your parents, and keep your children eat.
Bao Ma is very aggrieved: I have no right to eat a piece of cake with autonomous lumps!
After watching it, I think it is difficult to understand: How to eat a small cake for a wife and be educated?IntersectionIsnt sweets a womans patent?
In our house, such snacks do not need to be allocated at all.Because the childrens dad never eats it, the two children dont like to eat cakes , This kind of snacks have been bought for almost all of them.
I like to eat, but for health and figure, I have tasting.
So, Swiss volumes such as snacks will not be eaten in my house, leaving some of the "long hair" and throw away.
01. The husband thinks that "Swiss volume" is a math problem, but it is actually an emotional problem.
In the past few days, the topic of "Switzerland Volume" is hot. Many mothers go home and ask my husband: How do you divide 8 Swiss rolls?I even bought back a Swiss volume directly for her husband to "live on the spot."
It is said that Switzerlands Swiss volume is sold out in the past few days.
In fact, this is not a matter of specific distribution of items, nor is it a matter of expensive items, but How does his wifes status in the heart of her husband.
The husband in the video treats his wife to eat Swiss rolls, which makes the visitors feel that the wife is a waste of eating these snacks as a full -time treasure mother.No matter how ugly, she is not equipped with high food.
So, Baoma wants to see how your husband answered this question?
Many husbands are asked to be confused.
Some men said with a aggressive look: When will I eat your Switzerland volume, I dont know if I dont eat sweet?
Some men see through the thoughts of my wife: you eat 8, I look at the child, he cries, I will do him!
Although this answer is false, it is estimated that the woman will feel good after listening to haha.
There is also an unsolvable husband who said:
IntersectionIf you eat more sugar, you will get fat when you eat it. If you are bad, your child will become stupid.
Although the words are not good, they are better than.
Men Think that this is a mathematical problem. In fact, this is an emotional problem.
02. Why does this video cause the emotional outbreak of many netizens?
Many people suspect the authenticity of the video and think it is a shooting.
Some people also think that Reality is more cruel than video. Women must not be a full -time mother, the family status is too humble, must be economical independence, what to eat and buy.
I dont pay attention to the authenticity of the video. What I pay attention to is: Why does this video cause the emotional outbreak of many netizens?
Why do so many treasure moms pay attention to her husbands answer to "Swiss volume"?
Because many women pay too much attention to their position in her husbands eyes.
Women, after marriage, after giving birth, naturally treat their baby and housework as their incomparable responsibility. Putting the child first, the husband is in the second place, and he lives more and more back, even humble.
How is it just a full -time mother? Even in the workplace women, they also go out to work to make money, and even earn more than their husbands.I did not get my position.
Over time, I have lost a lot of rights that should belong to their own.
Naturally, there will be grievances and unwillingness.
These grievances and unwillingness, when they are "seeing" by other family members, they feel that they are worth it.
So, they asked her husbands answer.
In fact, the answer has always been there, in every detail in life, not a language answer.
03 Moms, do you want to eat a few "Swiss rolls" and do not need the answer of your husband
I want to say: Moms, You want to eat a few Swiss rolls, you dont need your husbands answer. The answer is with your own.
I can understand the mood of the treasure mother, want to get the recognition and respect of my husband, and want my husband to love himself forever.
Women who are kind and a little weak, are particularly easy to unknowingly fall in the passive state of marriage: for the satisfaction of each family member, repeatedly ignore their needs, including self -realizationDemand, as long as he "loves" me.
However, as a middle -aged woman with a 20 -year -old marriage age, I have realized it: That is, others can get your respect for you and your happiness.
Womens value is firstly as a human value, not the role of a wife and mother.
Your needs must be ranked in front of the child and husband, and you can be satisfied.
Of course, if you choose to ignore your feelings, dont blame your responsibilities on your children and husbands, because it is your own decision.
Teacher Liang Yongan, Fudan University, said frankly: Make women addicted to intimate relationships is actually a huge scam in a patriarchal society.
Many women like to passively accept her husbands dedication, spend strongly to operate marriage and family, and move themselves.
But I dont think of: I can be self -sufficient, or I can be the one who actively gives love and respect .
Manage yourself, strong, so -called love and status, you will take the initiative to come to you.
As Mr. Liu Na said:
Only at the beginning, like a bird, flying to himself, his wings flew to himself.The mountains, freedom, money and respect will follow.
So, Baoma, do n’t think about letting men give it in the family, but strive to fight for themselves, and then stand firmly.Its fine.
