Some time ago, the topic of "young people began to ligation for love" rushed on the hot search, reflecting that a group of young people really chose ligation at present.
Many people mistakenly think that ligation is "castration", but it is not.But what cannot be avoided is that ligation does mean losing fertility since then.
What is the reason why these young people choose "blade inward" and choose this path?
In this issue, the micro -story enters three "Zha men" to understand the story behind their ligation.
Text | Ma Kong Duo
Edit | Zhuoran"I am 25 years old this year,Lice "
This is a sentence sent by Wu Chenhan in the circle of friends. Instantly, more than 50 praises and more than 20 messages.Many friends asked Wu Chenhan and asked him, "Why cant you want to break the way?" Wu Chenhan replied that if you really cant think of it, he would not ligate.
Wu Chenhan is an operation in a hospital in Shanghai.During the consultation stage, the doctor used a model to operate a model and demonstrated to Wu Chenhan to see. According to the practice, he asked Wu Chenhan to consider it carefully after going back.
The process of the doctors demonstration looks very painful. After Wu Chenhan returned home, he also hesitated to take this knife.Later, I simply paid the money in one breath, and did not give myself a little room to discuss.
Wu Chenhan chose local anesthesia. During the operation, he could see doctors and nurse, and he could hear them.Wu Chenhan was not worried about the results after surgery, but was a little worried about whether the surgery could be successful.The whole process was very fast, and I did not look at the kind of hard pain that I imagined when the model operation. The surgery cost was only a few hundred yuan, and I was discharged soon.
Figure | Ligid surgery reference price
Since then, Wu Chenhan explained "The word of the word "one".In his own words, "as if it is new."
Many people mistakenly think that they want to "castrate" male genitals into contemporary "eunuchs".The statement can be described as fallacy.Men and women have ligation surgery. Women are cut off the fallopian tubes, while men cut off the vasal tubes that transport sperm to seminal vesicles, so that sperm cannot be released at the same time as semen, thereby achieving the purpose of contraception.
For Wu Chenhan, he did not want to contraception, but did not want to be "pregnant" at all.In his opinion, ligation is not suitable for everyone, but it is suitable for him.Wu Chenhan is the Dink family, which is the root cause of his choice of ligation surgery.
He is 24 years old and is a baby in the new century.Born in the small town of northern Anhui. When he was 4 years old, his parents were divorced because of emotional relationships.
The mother took him to marry into the newly formed family. The adoptive father was not friendly to him, and the mother also sent a fence without family discourse.Wu Chenhans childhood was spent in such an environment.He watched the movie "Harry Potter" when he was a kid, and he felt like Xiao Harry, who had lived in his aunts house.
After graduating from high school, Wu Chenhan went to Suzhou to work. Later, he opened a restaurant and bought a house in Suzhou.This way is not easy, and Wu Chenhan realizes that if you ca n’t give your children a stable and comfortable life, do n’t bring them to the world.He is a firm Dink tribe, and he knows that he cannot be a qualified father.
Later, when drinking with a friend, a friend woke up Wu Chenhan in a word, did he decide not to children because he was unable to have the ability.
Wu Chenhan thought about it, it was true.Cant afford it, it is also one of the reasons he chose to do the Dink tribe.In recent years, the situation in the catering industry has fallen, and the monthly mortgage of the month has been almost emptied.If you have a child, life will be dragged even more.
Wu Chenhan will get married next year. His girlfriend is his village, and the two met when they worked in a factory in Suzhou.Now this restaurant is made by the two of them to make money and operate in partnership.The girlfriend is also the Dink tribe. Maybe it is the reason that they can come together.
When the mother saw Wu Chenhans circle of friends, she knew that her son had done such things.She immediately called. This is the second phone call from her mother this year. The first call was to hear that he had opened a shop, made a boss, and came to him for living expenses.
The mothers meaning is very clear, that is, why do n’t such a big thing discuss with her, why do you give up children, what to do if you are old,EssenceWu Chenhans meaning is also very clear. He has grown up, and he has no throne to inherit. He goes to the nursing home when he is old.
The mother and child argued on the phone.The mother cried, Wu Chenhan thought that his mother was kidnapping with tears, but the mother apologized to him while condemning herself, saying that she did not take care of him. She was derailed in her marriage and thought about walking with others, but she did not considerHis feelings.
Before the mother hung up the phone, she repeatedly told Wu Chenhan to take good care of herself. She never cared about it, making Wu Chenhan feel like she is a stranger.
After Wu Chenhan returns to normal life, there is no need to consider the future to raise children. When he thinks of these, he stepped up easily and worked lightly.
Wu Chenhan does not recommend others to imitate him, not everyone is suitable for this choice.But for Wu Chenhan, this choice is like a threshold in life. If you pass, there is a frank road ahead.
Ligration. For men and women, although they are all contraceptive methods, there are also a lot of differences.In addition to transporting sperm and other reproductive effects, male vasters can be omitted almost omitted; and womens tubes connect the uterus and ovaries. If women want to ligate, the surgical location is deeper than men, and it is more likely to cause intestinal adhesion, ectopic pregnancy pregnancyWait for complications.
Therefore, the male lugpy women are "more cost -effective".
Xiao Tao chooses to ligate because he loves his wife too much.He is 28 years old and has been married to his wife for more than 3 years.
For more than three years, his wife has experienced two miscarriage, and his body is getting weaker and weaker.Doctors warn them that if they have miscarriage, their bodies will collapse completely.
In order to keep the wife from regenerating, Xiao Tao chose to ligate.The wife was thinking about ligation and squeezing, but Xiao Tao knew that the man was more suitable for ligation, and his wifes physical condition was not good.
Xiao Tao is not sad because of ligation, nor does it feel that life is missing. He and his wife think that even if you do n’t want children, life can still live wonderful.
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They have always paid attention to contraception after marriageBut even if there are 99%of the condom success rate, there are 1%vulnerabilities.As a youth of the Buddha, when they were pregnant in the past two years, they were not afraid of children and faced them bravely.They began to set up various types of toys, set up infant rooms, and look forward to the arrival of small lives.
Looking at those colorful dolls, small socks, and small shoes, the haze of miscarriage has been lingering in their hearts.Therefore, after the second miscarriage, they resolutely did a ligation surgery and resolutely did not want children.
At the beginning, the wife was hesitant. She was guilty because she could not bring a complete and healthy child.Xiao Tao could see his wifes mind and gave his wife an example.He had a colleague who was pregnant and was still working in the company. Once he unconsciously leaked urine, urine on the ground, and was seen by colleagues.Everyone pretended to be invisible, but the colleague blushed instantly and was very shameful.
Xiao Tao told his wife that I dont want you to experience such a thing.
Xiao Tao is lying on the operating table, and the lower body hair is cleaned in accordance with the requirements before surgery.During the operation, a feeling of soreness spread from the lower body, mixed with a fishy smell, and felt that some of the body was hollowed out.
Because of tension, Xiaotaos genitals are tight. Doctors cannot get off the knife and have been comforting Xiaotao to relax him.
The surgery makes Xiao Tao feel ashamed.He thinks that if his wife is pregnant, can he leak, obese, depression, etc. can all happen, will his wife feel ashamed?
"I dont want my wife to experience these." Xiao Tao was full of mind at that time.
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