A few days ago, "Shanghais married female teacher derailedThe news of the 16 -year -old male student " explodes the Internet.
When I saw it, my colleagues and I were angry with the behavior of the teacher.
However, the focus and wind direction of many people in the comment area is like this:
Love, I just wanted to go out of the wall out to eat 3 pieces of fried powder for a bowl. "
" No, this student is not a fuel -saving lamp, it must be an old churros. "
"Too bursting this child, it can be said that you can chat than me."
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These comments made me feel heartache, helpless, and even worried.
Because many people do not realize: The consequences of "identifying teacher -student love" may be more serious than we think.
Article 24 of my countrys "Protection Regulations for the Protection of Minor Schools" shows:
The school shall take necessary measures to prevent and and Stop faculty and students in love and sexual relationships.
In the United States, Britain, Canada, Israel and other countries, "teacher-student love" is an illegal act.
Well -known universities such as Yale University, Michigan University, etc., it is also clear that the teachers are strictly forbidden to have sexual relationships with students who directly teach and supervise themselves, or there is a relationship of love.
In Taiwan, China, the sexual behavior that occurs in the right relationship of the teacher -student love is called "power -sexual assault" Essence
维基百科相关词条显示：
“有51%的性骚扰和性侵犯，是由具有监管性角色（老师、Parents, superiors, etc.) people of the nature, and the regulatory character is essentially given some kind of power. "
Missing, forced physical contact, forced sexual relationships with the other party.
Among them, "sexual teasing at the level of words", we can also see one or two from the chat history of the female teacher and male students.
The most terrifying place of "Powerful and Sexual Assault" is precisely because of its hidden and vague boundary, and different people have their own subjective misunderstandings about itEssence
So, compared to discussing the problem of derailment and puberty of the female teacher, I think this incident is more significant to wake up everyone:
The education of "sexual assault" or "child sexual assault" is too scarce.
Today, one psychology brings a special "fairy tale set".
What stories have recorded on the back of the sun.
After reading this" Fairy Tale ", how do you feel?
Angry?fear?Sad?Or do you think this is alarmist?
Unfortunately, reality is much more serious and cruel than we show.
In June 2023, the Girl Protection Fund of the Chinese Childrens Children Culture and Art Foundation, and the Beijing Zhongyi Charity Foundation released the "Chinese Childrens Anti -sexual Promotion Report".Comprehensive analysis of the 9 -year report, "Girl Protection" found that one of the main features of sexual assault childrens cases is that the proportion of acquaintances is high.
Among them, in 2014, 87.87%, other years are between 70%and 80%.This is also proven to the data published by courts and procuratorates at all levels in recent years.In the case of acquaintances, teachers, faculty (including training teachers), relatives, neighbors, and family friends accounted for relatively high.
So, improve attention, increase vigilance, and resolutely say no of "teacher -student love" that is not equal to power is the real protection of children.
From this moment, let us together, protect ourselves, and protect the people we love.
The world loves you.
Author: Miao Miao
Artist: Spring Roll
Edit: a succulent, jessica
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